Is Internet Dating Not Happening For You? Try This…
Published on July 18th, 2008 by Chaszey Sandhriel in InternetDo you ever realize that Online profiles begin with the word “I”? Even though you are the one who is longing for true love, the online dating process really should not be about you.
“Dating Online is not about you, it’s about the other person you’re wanting to attract to you. This is also known as Compound Interest. For a change try to ‘Pay it Forward’ and watch what happens,” Chaszey says.
“What, I have to pay something forward?” you may say.
Think about it. There are more than 10 million Daters registered with Internet Dating sites paying over $2 billion dollars per year in the hopes of finding true love. If everyone is looking for just that one person, the likelihood that we spend most of our time rejecting others and being rejected ourselves is a given. In other words, once your sizzling profile is public, all you can focus on is weeding through the hundreds or even thousands of men and women that flood towards you.
So while you’re waiting for your true love, earn some karma points by learning how to gracefully say “thanks, but no thanks,” because that is what you’ll spend most of your time doing on the Internet.
“We all have heard the saying that ‘what goes out comes back tenfold.’ What we tend to forget is that no one should have to earn our kindness and our respect. Everyone deserves these gifts from us for the simplest fact that we share in the same sun light, the same water, the same air, and we all walk pretty similar paths to one another, a journey called life. We have to recognize and never forget that we all are looking for the same thing: Unconditional love,” says Chaszey.
You have to show willingness and devote some time to learn how to send graceful rejection e-mails to your potential suiters. They should show effort, be filled with grace and let the other person feel your kindness. “Don’t ever forget that the other person has feelings too and that the kindness of your words may just heal a broken heart. Mostly your tender e-mail will bring you karma points that will multiply through the concept of compound interest, and life will take on a whole new meaning for you. Tough to explain, but so worth the effort.”
These karma points serve like a bonus to help you build a new character and create a stronger and kinder you so you can bring into your experience the person you truly deserve.
So next time you want to hit that preset button sending a “no thanks” message, think about taking the time to read the person’s profile and sending them a reply filled with kindness, because they really deserve it.
Chaszey Sandhriel is Your Online Dating Coach. She can help you get the results you deserve. Visit her website to download free tips and participate in free tele-seminars, www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com, or you can reach her at 415.419.7952.
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