by Vin DiCarlo

Does it ever feel like WORK meeting women?

And do you ever feel despite all your hard work you’re not even closer to your goal?

If you answered YES to either of those questions, then READ ON.

I’m not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.

Seeing a woman that you like but has already a boyfriend.

Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she’s not returning or answering your calls.

Aside from the fact that as the guy you are the one that do everything in order to move things forward.

You must have the courage in the way you approach.

YOU have to keep the conversation going at first, YOU have to escalate physically, YOU have to get HER number or rack your brain to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

Men are much higher than women when it comes to the standards of behavior.

(Let’s not started on that…let’s just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are “beautiful.”)

Being not “extroverted” by nature can be pretty exhausting.

…I just had a client who often complained of “extroversion fatigue.”

I exactly knew what he meant about because I used to struggle with it before.

Before I began to teach myself pickup, I would go out, and be mentally DRAINED after talking to three or four women.

I would have to sit down and rest!

Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.

I would go home absolutely dead

… from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!

Does it make sense to you???

And there was the overall, general dating fatigue. The emotional ups and downs, the discouraging results, the effort I had to make just to get women to hang out with me or to sleep with me.

It was like a full time job and I was working overtime!

I really had force myself, the first time I got in this game, to go out and pickup ALL Day for days on end. (I admit that I was a nerd and pushed it to the extreme.)

But what can I say, I was very eager to learn all this stuff (and not to mention extremely hungers for results after years of sensual frustration).

I am pushing myself just like an athletes that pushes themselves to the gym

I was working muscles I had never used before, or to be more precise, I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS.

If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this.

About the Author:
Vin DiCarlo is a expert dating trainer, who’s highly advance website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has taught about VH1’s Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.

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